Does he think I do NOTHING! Rant!
Okay sorry but I had to get this off my chest somewhere, otherwise I was going to scream!
Ill start with my weekend...
Friday :my mother came over to do some yard work since Ryan(fiance) won't do crap! The grass is high, fire ants are so bad that I can't let the kids go out and play, car parts up next to the house. We have had a pipe that has been spraying out under the house, I told Ryan of this 3 months ago! So when he comes home he tells me, don't say anything to your mother, but Im fixing the leak tommorow, (our water bill last month was $70, and this month $90!) and hands me the water bill. I then tell him, well me and mom had done said your DOING it this weekend. So of course he gets all pissy about it, and says Im NOT about to have someone tell me what Im doing. So needless to say our night wasn't plesant. I would have fixted the leak myself if I knew how, and if he would have watched the kids while I was under the house!
Saturday: we go to the meat market and to Sams club. Colt (our son) was only calm in Sams for the first 3 mins or and then starts screaming and wanting to go crazy. I can't handle the stress of Colt and Ryan shaking his stroller and fussing at him and me, so I say lets go! Again this only pisses Ryan off, and all the way out the storre he is telling Emma(our daughter) that mommy is a dumb ass who always wants to leave places, and that I make a scene! On our ride home he stars saying that the only place I will take Colt alone is therapy and doctors apt. and him being the way he is, is only a crutch for me. And starts acting like he knows all about whats going on with Colt...NO! I was the one on the phone with doctors for hours on the phone and in apts with him, and it FINALLY paid off...we got a diagnoses and got him started in therapy, but he acts like he DOES and KNOWS everything about that stuff! He doesn't even pay attention to me when I tell him how his apts. go.
Sunday..okay day I guess! Just watched movies at the house all day. My mother told Ryan he needed to clean out the building and burn some things out back. We took out the carpet in the house about a month ago (me and my mother) and Ryan was suppost to take it to the trash dump, but NEVER did, he left it int he yard this whole time, and killed the grass. But he din NONE of the things he needed to do.
Monday: Ryan goes to work, I get up, wake Emma feed her and get her ready for school. Wake Colt up, get him his juice and take Emma to school. Then back home for Colt and I, feed him, bathe him and head to the doctors. Come home take off trash, I am ALWAYS the one doing this (mans job in my opinion) come home drag the carpet into the back yard( heavy as all get out) feed Colt lunch. Go wait in line for 30 min to pick Emma up from school, then to the grocery store and back home. Feed Emma relax for about an hour while Colt sleeps. Clean some, do laundry and the dishes. Start dinner,Ryan gets home. We eat and then he gets on the computer and looks at tattoos, while I clean up dinner, and get emma bathed and get the kids dressed for bed. Read them 3 stories and tuck them in. He takes a shower ( I had to take a bath WITH the kids IF I wanted to get clean) I fold laundry while he is in shower, Colt is of course NOT in the bed but jumping on it while I attempt to fold laundry. Ryan gets out and walks next to me, and starts flipping through the clothes Ive folded and switches boxers, leaving the once neatly folded clothes a mess now. Buts on his boxers and gets into bed. I put up the clothes and get Colt and lay down as well. Then Ryan rubs my leg and acts like he wants some...well F that! lights out!
I know he works and I don't, but my job don't end at 5:30 like his, it;s 24/7! I don't ask much from him, but to atleast try to help me with the kids and atleast keep up the outside jobs...I can't and take care of the kids. I know I wanted children so don't think Im complaining about taking care of them, Im NOT! I love that! Its just I get no gelp from their father, and we all know I didn't make them alone! I get fussed at atleast once a week and by fussed I mean huge fight aover us not having sex. Well by the time I get the kids ready for bed, Im tired and pissed off at the fact that he does NOTHING when he comes in from work. and Weekends are no different I feed them and cook them every meal, get every fight, and every need of theirs. I change EVERY diaper! He refusses to change a poop one and even leaves the room while I do it!
Again sorry guys but I had to get that frustration out somehow!
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