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Originally Posted by oceanspraypink
I just never get in the mood...I need to see the doctor.
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How long have you been with him?
I got like this with my ex husband. I did everything and was tired of his lack of nothing so I went back to work full time 2 months after I had my daughter. I had Alexis in daycare, he had to pick her up after work and I would make dinner for HER and I. I made him fend for himself. I did wash for her and myself. She went to bed then I went to bed. I was exhausted but I was DONE being his housewife, secretary, etc. I was living my life with my daughter as a single mom and my husband lived there but I was fed up with putting up with his shit. Honestly, his lack of doing anything and his job (he was military) completely had me fall out of love with him and I had no desire to have sex with him at all and when we did I had the whole "do what you got to do and get the fuck off of me" attitude.
We are divorced now and I have a VERY healthy sex drive again but I seriously thought there was something wrong with me but it wasn't me at all. I just wasn't attracted to him. I didn't want to be with him emotionally or physically.
Ash, he doesn't appreciate what you do everyday for your children, for him or for yourself. If you didn't do it, you know damn well it wouldn't get done.
What does your mom say about him?