Want to get back on the horse but need opnions - The Postgame Pub

**dohcdelsol93** · 05-11-2008, 03:56 PM

so the wife just had a baby. For the last few months i have not been getting any. Now that the baby is here i won't be getting any for atleast another 6 weeks and thats if I'm lucky.

I got married with intentions of never sleeping with any other women however I did not ever agree to give up on having sex completely.

Sex is something i need and this was stated numerous times before and after the "i do's".

Is it wrong of me to have sexual thougths about other women that I see on a daily basis? Is it wrong of me to want to exploit these urges? I mean if it wasn't for the wife not wanting to have sex i wouldn't be having them in the first place.

Long story short, these male enhancement pill free samples are not going to last forever and I want to use my new and improved wood before I run out of magic potion

what's your take on this?

Darius Ali · 05-11-2008, 04:14 PM

Im not judging you, however.... its obviously wrong to cheat. Everyone knows that.

Having said that, I have numerous friends that do it all the time. As far as I'm concerned, I don't agree with it but its not my relationship so I don't really care. I personally would never do it. Its just an issue of trust. My wife just had a baby and yes its been awhile since we..... you know....:) but I committed to her when I put that ring on. I mean, think of it like this....

What if something happens to you like say, you break your legs in an accident or you have some sort of surgery as to where you cannot have sex for some time. How would you feel if she went out and found someone else to satisfy her simply because she "needed" sex? Like I said, do what you have to do man, I don't care either way. Just my two cents!

**dohcdelsol93** · 05-11-2008, 04:52 PM

I'm a man. If my leg was broken I'd find a positon to have sex in where the pain is bareable. Even then, i'd deal with alot of pain for sex

Darius Ali · 05-11-2008, 08:31 PM

Hahahaha!

**WonderMike** · 05-11-2008, 09:47 PM

ok bro.....look I love you....you are my boy we have been through alot together and you know I got your back 100% son....but before you do anything think about how it made you feel when it happened to you....

**paxil4x4** · 05-12-2008, 12:53 AM

I thought after having a baby the vagina was good for pounding after six weeks after?

**TehMan** · 05-12-2008, 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by WonderMike

ok bro.....look I love you....you are my boy we have been through alot together and you know I got your back 100% son....but before you do anything think about how it made you feel when it happened to you....

truth

oceanspraypink · 05-12-2008, 10:50 AM

Yeah Im with Mikey on this one too. I know how hard it was on you when all that happened like I told Charlie it was like a piece of your happy personallity died, you didn't seem the same for a LONG time, and look at me am still having issues with Ryan with what I did (he NEVER wants to let me out of his sight.)... you know how it effects the relationship! But question could this feeling be some sort of resentment(sp) of what happened and you thought you were over it, but you find the excuse that you guys haven't been having sex to let you feel okay with wanting to wonder. Personally in my experience when I started having thoughts of other guys and wanting to explore that I knew something was wrong between me and Ryan.. you guys still could be having issues(even if they don't seem obvious) and you wanting to be with other women is a sign of that? I can't tell you what to do, nor am I the perfect spouse and should be giving relationship advice, but I would think long and hard on the effects it would have on your relationship. Relationships are hard enough, and I feel for you you had all that drama and now a new baby, which is a blessing, but as you know stressful at the same time. I hope you find your answers!

Plus you have a hand, lol or better yet go get a pocket pussy, LMAO!

and oh yeah I need my lawn mower fixed...LOL!

**TehMan** · 05-12-2008, 01:17 PM

no hand or pocket pussy...i know jeremiah, pete, mikey and few other of us that will bend over for you :)

**Wilson_** · 05-12-2008, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by paxil4x4

I thought after having a baby the vagina was good for pounding after six weeks after?

Depends on how bad they tear....

oceanspraypink · 05-12-2008, 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Wilson_

Depends on how bad they tear....

If you have a good doctor you shouldn't tear. A girl knows when she and her body is ready...even if she did tear you should be healed by 6 weeks for sure, no matter how bad it was! I was wanting it as early as 2 weeks after my 2nd kid, but waited until the 4 week mark! But alot of first time moms are afraid of what it's going to feel like and wait the full 6 weeks... just keep in mind what she went through down there...and let her let you know when she's ready, lol!

**Wilson_** · 05-13-2008, 04:37 AM

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Originally Posted by oceanspraypink

If you have a good doctor you shouldn't tear. A girl knows when she and her body is ready...even if she did tear you should be healed by 6 weeks for sure, no matter how bad it was! I was wanting it as early as 2 weeks after my 2nd kid, but waited until the 4 week mark! But alot of first time moms are afraid of what it's going to feel like and wait the full 6 weeks... just keep in mind what she went through down there...and let her let you know when she's ready, lol!

I totally hear your points, but that all depends on a few things, how stretched a womans vajayjay is before the baby comes out, how big the baby is ect,ect.. some times it just happens

my wife is tore up, and i will wait intill she is good and ready to bone down, i want her to ready and comfortable, if she aint happy i aint happy...
she is going thru like 11-12 months of hormone, and body changes i will wait intill she is ready, just makes for better sex in the end

oceanspraypink · 05-13-2008, 10:17 AM

Thumbs up to you man for being so patient! You are right, I had a great doctor with my daughter, but ended up tearing in places you don't tear at! She just came to fast! I tend to not finish my thoughts and expect people to just know what Im saying, lol! Alot of doctors don't tell you to take it slow or do massage with the oils to help prevent tearing, so that's what I meant.

05-11-2008, 03:56 PM	#1 (permalink)
dohcdelsol93 Lets keep the OT clean Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: top seceret government location Posts: 5,860 vCash: 13602 Donate Rep Power: 140 Awards Showcase Total Awards: 2	Want to get back on the horse but need opnions so the wife just had a baby. For the last few months i have not been getting any. Now that the baby is here i won't be getting any for atleast another 6 weeks and thats if I'm lucky. I got married with intentions of never sleeping with any other women however I did not ever agree to give up on having sex completely. Sex is something i need and this was stated numerous times before and after the "i do's". Is it wrong of me to have sexual thougths about other women that I see on a daily basis? Is it wrong of me to want to exploit these urges? I mean if it wasn't for the wife not wanting to have sex i wouldn't be having them in the first place. Long story short, these male enhancement pill free samples are not going to last forever and I want to use my new and improved wood before I run out of magic potion what's your take on this? __________________ Taco Bell is awsome even if it gives you the shits

05-11-2008, 04:14 PM	#2 (permalink)
Darius Ali PGP HoFer Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Cheyenne, Wyoming Posts: 2,616 vCash: 29888 Donate My Blog: BallAboveAll-Basketball news and analysis PSN Gamertag: DariusJustinAli Blog Entries: 5 Rep Power: 56 Awards Showcase Total Awards: 2	Re: Want to get back on the horse but need opnions Im not judging you, however.... its obviously wrong to cheat. Everyone knows that. Having said that, I have numerous friends that do it all the time. As far as I'm concerned, I don't agree with it but its not my relationship so I don't really care. I personally would never do it. Its just an issue of trust. My wife just had a baby and yes its been awhile since we..... you know....:) but I committed to her when I put that ring on. I mean, think of it like this.... What if something happens to you like say, you break your legs in an accident or you have some sort of surgery as to where you cannot have sex for some time. How would you feel if she went out and found someone else to satisfy her simply because she "needed" sex? Like I said, do what you have to do man, I don't care either way. Just my two cents! __________________ "Just Win Baby"

05-11-2008, 04:52 PM	#3 (permalink)
dohcdelsol93 Lets keep the OT clean Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: top seceret government location Posts: 5,860 vCash: 13602 Donate Rep Power: 140 Awards Showcase Total Awards: 2	Re: Want to get back on the horse but need opnions I'm a man. If my leg was broken I'd find a positon to have sex in where the pain is bareable. Even then, i'd deal with alot of pain for sex __________________ Taco Bell is awsome even if it gives you the shits

05-11-2008, 08:31 PM	#4 (permalink)
Darius Ali PGP HoFer Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Cheyenne, Wyoming Posts: 2,616 vCash: 29888 Donate My Blog: BallAboveAll-Basketball news and analysis PSN Gamertag: DariusJustinAli Blog Entries: 5 Rep Power: 56 Awards Showcase Total Awards: 2	Re: Want to get back on the horse but need opnions Hahahaha! __________________ "Just Win Baby"

05-11-2008, 09:47 PM	#5 (permalink)
WonderMike Ranger Danger Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: G-vegas Posts: 1,932 vCash: 7746 Donate XBL Gamertag: MottorBoater Rep Power: 51 Awards Showcase Total Awards: 1	Re: Want to get back on the horse but need opnions ok bro.....look I love you....you are my boy we have been through alot together and you know I got your back 100% son....but before you do anything think about how it made you feel when it happened to you....

05-12-2008, 12:53 AM	#6 (permalink)
paxil4x4 Elite Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: CA Posts: 695 vCash: 438 Donate Rep Power: 20 Awards Showcase Total Awards: 1	Re: Want to get back on the horse but need opnions I thought after having a baby the vagina was good for pounding after six weeks after?

05-12-2008, 10:50 AM	#8 (permalink)
oceanspraypink fun sized Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: South Carolina Posts: 1,462 vCash: 4053 Donate Rep Power: 41	Re: Want to get back on the horse but need opnions Yeah Im with Mikey on this one too. I know how hard it was on you when all that happened like I told Charlie it was like a piece of your happy personallity died, you didn't seem the same for a LONG time, and look at me am still having issues with Ryan with what I did (he NEVER wants to let me out of his sight.)... you know how it effects the relationship! But question could this feeling be some sort of resentment(sp) of what happened and you thought you were over it, but you find the excuse that you guys haven't been having sex to let you feel okay with wanting to wonder. Personally in my experience when I started having thoughts of other guys and wanting to explore that I knew something was wrong between me and Ryan.. you guys still could be having issues(even if they don't seem obvious) and you wanting to be with other women is a sign of that? I can't tell you what to do, nor am I the perfect spouse and should be giving relationship advice, but I would think long and hard on the effects it would have on your relationship. Relationships are hard enough, and I feel for you you had all that drama and now a new baby, which is a blessing, but as you know stressful at the same time. I hope you find your answers! Plus you have a hand, lol or better yet go get a pocket pussy, LMAO! and oh yeah I need my lawn mower fixed...LOL!

05-12-2008, 01:17 PM	#9 (permalink)
TehMan 高手 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: G-Ville Posts: 1,077 vCash: 3327 Donate Rep Power: 29	Re: Want to get back on the horse but need opnions no hand or pocket pussy...i know jeremiah, pete, mikey and few other of us that will bend over for you :) __________________ i own nothing

05-13-2008, 10:17 AM	#13 (permalink)
oceanspraypink fun sized Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: South Carolina Posts: 1,462 vCash: 4053 Donate Rep Power: 41	Re: Want to get back on the horse but need opnions Thumbs up to you man for being so patient! You are right, I had a great doctor with my daughter, but ended up tearing in places you don't tear at! She just came to fast! I tend to not finish my thoughts and expect people to just know what Im saying, lol! Alot of doctors don't tell you to take it slow or do massage with the oils to help prevent tearing, so that's what I meant.